Looking for Perfection

To me, all the words written on a dictionary will never be enough to describe how much one love a person. What irritates me is when people say; “Why do you love him/her?” Like if you ask me, love is something undefined. You can’t just look for it the meaning of how you feel about someone. Yes, love can be defined in a dictionary. But the feeling of love; to me, can never be defined nor nearly impossible to describe. It’s like describing a color to a blind person.

Although, sometimes it takes time for us to figure out who “the one” is. Most of the time, we gotta go through some heart breaks, sometimes we gotta fight for the wrong person, love the wrong person, be crazy about the wrong person before we find that one person that is really worth it. Knowing that person is the one could be difficult. But sometimes, we gotta accept the fact that we can be in love more than once in our lifetime till we find the one.

It may not be easy to determine that person, but we gotta give some time and give that person a chance to prove their worth.

Being in love, loving that person and loving the idea of that person is three different things. And feeling all three to one person is honestly the best feeling a person could ever feel. One doesn’t have to keep saying “I love you” to actually love someone. One can tell someone a very simple word or phrase that shows love to that person.

Someone once reminded me “babe, just because I don’t say it back doesn’t mean I don’t love you” an entire sentence changed my entire perspective when it comes to being in love and loving that person. Why? Because, after that sentence, I start noticing every little things he’s been doing FOR me, all the little things that shows how much he loves me. I don’t need him to say it because he acts upon it. “Actions speaks louder than words” they say.

It might take quite some time to find THE ONE, but once you do, I know it’ll be worth every second of the day. No need to rush.